The Slinky Song by Andrew Robert Allen

Sometimes the simplest lyrics and melodies connect with a 3 year old in a way that you'd never expect. This is a hit at our house.

 

This is the slinky song it isn't very long

This is the slinky song it isn't very long

Slinky, Slinky, Slinky, Slinky, Slinky, Slinky 

This is the slinky song it isn't very long

Happy 50th Anniversary!

50 years ago today, these two said I do. With so much going on in the world, it feels rare and a great blessing to have parents who have loved and been committed to each other for so many years. I’m so thankful for both of them in how they raised my brother and I in a home that valued faith in God and has celebrated many milestones and successes together as well as supported each other in the hard parts and challenges of life. I am thankful to have them as an active part of my life and as grandparents to our son. 

As you grow up and become an adult your relationship with your parents shifts but it’s so nice to have confidence that they are for you, acting as a resource and source of wisdom and counsel, and cheering for you as you navigate education, career, hobbies, friendships, relationships, marriage, and parenting. I’m blessed and thankful that God brought their paths together 50 years ago and that they have been such good parents and friends. Happy Anniversary Grady and Diane!

When the Grumpies Come to Town Song

When the grumpies come to town you must tell them settle down 

If you feel a little sad or even kind of mad

It’s time to make a change and turn that frown around and tell the grumpies that they need to settle down 

Settle down (settle down) settle down (settle down)

It’s time to make a change and turn that frown around and tell the grumpies that they need to settle down

When the grumpies come to town you must tell them settle down 

If your tummy says it’s time and you’re starting to whine

It’s time to make a change and turn that frown around and tell the grumpies that they need to settle down 

Settle down (settle down) settle down (settle down)

It’s time to make a change and turn that frown around and tell the grumpies that they need to settle down

When the grumpies come to town you must tell them settle down 

If your face is turning red cause it’s time to go to bed

It’s time to make a change and turn that frown around and tell the grumpies that they need to settle down 

Settle down (settle down) settle down (settle down)

It’s time to make a change and turn that frown around and tell the grumpies that they need to settle down

Read Through the Bible

This morning I finished reading the Bible all the way through again. I’ve been doing this off and on for the past 25 years or so and don’t know how many times I’ve completed it but in each season of life, I’ve found so many relevant passages speaking to the challenges, encouraging me, and pointing me to the author and perfecter of our faith. 

There is something powerful about consistently exposing your mind to a source of wisdom and spiritual truth over a long period of time and I have seen God use it over and over to impact my life. In Psalms 119:105 it says, “Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path.” I’ve found the Bible to be a guiding light for me and will probably be reading and learning from it for the rest of my life.

If you’ve never read the Bible or read it all the way through it’s actually not that difficult to do. Like any good habit, all it takes is a little consistency and with just 10-15 minutes a day you can read through the Bible in a year. Apps like YouVersion’s Bible app have plans breaking it into bite sized chunks with a few chapters from the Old Testament, a few from the New Testament, a chapter from Psalms, and a couple verses from Proverbs each day. You can even make it a part of your commute or fitness routine by listening to the audio version. It’s the best seller of all time and can impact your life in deeply meaningful and eternally consequential ways. Why not start reading it today?

In Pursuit of His best,

Andrew

Book Review: This is Water by David Foster Wallace

There are only a few books that I intentionally have purchased with plans of reading them again. This Is Water is one of them. Originally a keynote from David Foster Wallace to the 2005 graduating class of Kenyon College (listen to the audio at this link) and put into a short book format with a sentence per page. The audio or video version is excellent as well and adds an element of humor that you may not pick up in the written version. The book does such a good job of bridging the gap between the idealism of the young launching into the world and the realities of the mundanities of adulthood and choosing how to think about them.

There is a lot of wisdom and truth and humor throughout the book but these are some key quotes that stood out to me.

“Learning how to think really means learning how to exercise some control over how and what you think.”

“If you’re automatically sure that you know what reality is and who and what is really important-if you want to operate on your default setting- then you like me probably will not consider possibilities that aren’t pointless and annoying. But if you’ve really learned how to think, how to pay attention, then you will know you have other options.”

“there are all different kinds of freedom and the kind that is most precious you will not hear much talked about in the great outside world of winning and achieving and displaying. The really important kind of freedom involves attention, and effort, and being able truly to care about other people and to sacrifice for them, over and over, in myriad petty little unsexy ways, every day. That is real freedom.”

“Everybody worships. The only choice we get is what to worship. And an outstanding reason for choosing some sort of God or spiritual type thing to worship…is that pretty much anything else you worship will eat you alive. If you worship money and things…then you will never have enough. Never feel you have enough. It’s the truth. Worship your own body and beauty… and you will always feel ugly and when time and age start showing, you will die a million deaths before they finally plant you…worship power you will feel weak and afraid, and you will need ever more power of others to keep the fear at bay. Worship your intellect, being seen as smart, you will end up feeling stupid, a fraud, always on the verge of being found out. And so on. Look the insidious thing about these forms of worship is not that they’re evil or sinful. It is that they are unconscious. They are default settings.”

(From a content warning perspective, he does reference suicide and given how his life ended, perhaps the speech should be taken as foreshadowing and with a grain of salt.) 

There are countless graduation speeches and some are profound, inspirational, instructive, funny or otherwise entertaining. On the whole, this slice of the graduation speech pie rates up at the top and can help shape a person’s thinking in meaningful and helpful ways if taken to heart. Best of all it can be read in 15-20 minutes at most. I recommend this book to anyone but especially those on the cusp of launching into adulthood or starting probably any endeavor that you’ve not attempted before.

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In pursuit of His best,

Andrew

AI Music Creation

I created an AI band and song this week as an illustration for a presentation I did at work. The prompt I gave was create a 90s alternative rock song with the theme of being a steward at a financial planning and investment management company. I went through several iterations to get to a version I liked and was really impressed with the music quality though the lyrics could use a bit of refining.

AI is a good collaboration tool but don’t think it will ever fully replace humans in the music creation process. Music and the arts are subjective and while AI can do a pretty good job of approximating human likes and dislikes, it doesn’t have the lived experience, emotions, and innate cultural understanding for how something will resonate with humans and the context they’re living in. There will always need to be humans to guide the process at some level.

Checkout the song at this link  https://suno.com/song/b2cc71c9-5509-4413-83f5-3ef03dc96623?sh=8OnG18UnyzkaXLtS

Dad Files: I Like Shoes Song

Sometimes when helping toddler friends put on their shoes a fun song can help. Here’s a contribution to the toddler playlist. 

I like shoes, I like shoes, I like shoes, I like shoes,

How bout you?

I like shoes, I like shoes, I like shoes, I like shoes,

How bout you?

So put on your socks put on your shoes 

It’s my favorite thing to do 

Cause I like shoes, I like shoes, I like shoes, I like shoes,

How bout you?